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What if it’s Already Perfect?

Beautiful butterfly that is perfectly perfect

As a recovering perfectionist, I’ve come to appreciate how little of life I have to improve, correct, or perfect. And I’ve come to realize how I can stand in the way of perfection that already exists by my attempts to have life conform to my idea of what’s perfect. Perfectionism is an attempt to control […]

Forgiving the Unforgivable

Forgiving the Unforgivable

What if nothing is unforgivable? I recently heard someone describe what they felt to be a particularly egregious transgression as “unforgivable.” I didn’t catch the specifics of just what the person felt was unforgivable, and for just a second, I was curious about what it possibly could have been.  I didn’t have much time to […]